
There's an interesting piece over at Cnet's News.com that touches on why male MMORPG players pick female avatars as their player character of choice. While some may just choose a female to have something pretty to look at, News.com quotes a male player as saying that one of the bonuses of being a girl in game is "people give you more free stuff."
Even though some of us here at Joystiq have never noticed the trend while immersed in any particular MMO, we can see this happening among the eager-to-please MMO crowd. The story mentions that a recent About.com poll said "nearly two-thirds of the 920 respondents said they play characters of the opposite sex in online role-playing games." Of course, taking on a female role has its own unique benefits and disadvantages, as the story notes:
- THE GOOD: Gamers, both male and female, say female avatars confirm what they already knew: Being a pretty girl has its perks. Female avatars are often the center of attention and showered with gifts such as swords or armor by other characters.
- THE BAD: They also, however, get unsolicited and sometimes condescending game play advice from the thousands of mostly male players who populate the MMO universe.
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The same applies to World of Warcraft. The majority of the human male models look as if they are over 40 years of age. Most have noticeable creases and wrinkles in their face, and a disturbing number of them are bald. Considering how many 18-25 year old males must play this game, it's odd how few 18-25 year old male avatars exist.
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Of course, that said, I tend to balance it out, playing a roughly-equal number of male characters to female.
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It would be interesting if they gave us more options for our characters. Why can't I make a fat character or a really old man who's hunching over as he walks? I guess it is because of gameplay. Everyone has to be equal, and it would be kind of weird seeing an old man or a fatty running around as quickly as a 30-year old hunter.
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I am not interested in your items, nor your attention (in-game). I just want to play; this is the easiest way to do so with the minimalist amount of drama involved.
I understand that video games is a male-dominated pasttime, and that females aern't even taken that seriously in many websites. I would love to see a bit more understanding in this front in general.
Guys, if female avatars in game are trying to get stuff from you, they probably aern't worth your time. But, if they're working hard to be an integral part of your guild, why can't you look past their gender and welcome them the same way you would any male member?
Who really cares what gender they are?
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I now play exclusivly male characters for 1 reason. Dudes always hit on you. And it uncomfortable to tell a guy you've been playing with for weeks that your not really a chick after hes made the plunge into thinking your a real woman. Even more disturbing than that is the fact that it probably doesn't matter to the person on the other end what sex or orientation you actually are.
It much easier just to play a dude and not have to deal with dudes.
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I've never thought of MMO gender-bending as a bad thing. If anyone asks, just say you're a dude. Really, no one is going to care as long as you can play. This goes both ways.
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I *was* really dissapointed at one point in the game when the armor with the statboost I wanted looked like a freakin' nightgown though. It was embarrassing to go into combat in a nightie... I couldn't help thinking "Okay, this is going to protect me from.... what exactly? Timid boys?"
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My motivation for choosing a female model in WoW was what was basically mentioned above by others ... I didn't like the look of the human male models, they were all older and more gruff and buff looking than was to my liking. I was fooling with the character creator for the male model and I eventually was like, "screw this", and switched over to female.
Anyway, I can contrast my experience in WoW with my experience playing a female healer in GemStone III (a pay-to-play MUD) back in the day, a more role-play heavy game, I found myself comparatively showered with male attention, to the extent that I had to buy myself a wedding ring to ward off unwanted suitors.
I mostly played a male character in that game, but a few years later I tried creating another female character, and was never really flirted with. My male character got more attention from the opposite sex (or shall I say, from avatars of the opposite sex) than my female character did, though granted, I did play the male character many, many more hours.
So I'm really not sure that in this day and age, where it's known to be a common phenomenon that men play women and women play men, that there is much of a difference in the way people treat other players based on the gender of their avatar.
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I'm a guy and my highest character in WoW is a female. I don't flirt with anyone, in fact I'm overwhelmingly cold towards any advance made at me. Yet somehow, to imbeciles, this still matters. In fact I think it even makes matters worse, because then I'm a challenge for whatever debonair IT worker that thinks he can conquer me.
In other words, the problem's not with the men using female avatars but the way female characters are treated period. When there's even the suggestion that a female is playing, you're often either contending with some misogynistic asshole trying to tell you how to play or the aforementioned type of player. After a while, it makes you want to play a male character just to avoid the drama that often finds you. I shouldn't have to go out of my way to explain why I chose a female avatar, as the blame's not mine to take. The blame is on every person who decides to treat any character differently because of their (perceived) sex.
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For offline games I tend to go with female. I'm a dude in real life. One of the reasons we play games is to experience a new world. One of the fundamental things in life is our gender. It is something that we are forever stuck with, no drugs nor surgery can truly change that. So if I'm in a new world, I'll be a new gender.
Yet some still call me a pervert for rolling female so often.
Also it seems this post didn't go through and my next one did, so my previous post SHOULD follow this one... :S
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Because i just want be looking something pretty and mostly i like more the design of the females characters.
And well maybe some people choose female avatars to have some kind of bonus in game but i dont care about this in fact it seems pretty sad that somones actually does this.
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Anyways, cross-gender characters in MMOs like Ragnarok is a bigger deal. Mainly because the gender of your charater is supposed to be the same as the one as you chose for yourself in your account. And a lot of girls play Ragnarok too; so finding a cross-dresser in RO is indeed freaky. Not as freaky as guys pretending to be girls while playing CS...
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And I'm not a homosexual before anyone wonders.
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I've played guild wars since it came out, and all I've ever played were girl characters (except in PvP, but they're temporary, and thus less important.) Thing is, in GW, the girl skins simply look better; Faces, hair, bodies, everything, just seems like more time was put into the models for the females. Hell, the girls usually get better skins for the armor as well.
I just don't want to sit there staring at a lazily designed face that doesn't even look human at times.
In regards to getting free stuff because I have a girl avatar... I cannot remember ever getting any. Not a piece since I've started. More often than not I'm reduced to dragging people on teamspeak or vent to prove that I am, in fact, of the female persuasion (and hell, they've even disbelieved me then, preferring to believe I'm a preteen boy rather than an actual female gamer.)
I really want to know what MMO has female avatars getting showered with gifts. I'd sign up in an instant ;p
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My guess is that most people (sans the hormone-driven teen agegroup, and a few rogue others) simply know better than to try to woo somebody online with random presents, or are simply too concerned about their own progression to give something that could be useful to them away so easily.
Honestly, I play female characters in most games because they look nicer. Thing is, nobody really cares, because they probably have the same idea. Plus, it saves everybody the trouble of insecure excuses like "I picked Mithra for the stats."
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I play two males on WoW, mostly because I intend to use Ventrilo with them and would prefer to avoid the doubletakes.
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I'm a real female who always plays females, but I don't think I get any special treatment, nor do I get hit on.
Maybe I'm just an asshole?
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That being said, I have never, EVER gotten hit on, given free things or had someone offer unwanted advice because I had a female avatar.
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Although there is the occasional person who tends to hit on the female characters, I think, from what I've noticed, and that has been said above, most people just assume that the vast majority of female characters in MMORPG's are male, and it's a little immature to make it a habit of hitting on people in a game in the first place...
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Oh yeah. I went there.
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*cough* Guildwars *cough*
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Have my characters, male and female, been hit on? Sure. But how seriously can you take some goofball hitting on your virtual characters?
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Too gruff, you say? More gruff say I!
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I have a single character in FFXI, who is a Mithra. Unlike in WoW, the male characters in FFXI aren't that bad too look at, but if I'm going to spends months of my life looking at an avatar, I'd much prefer it to be female.
I've been hit on (seriously) once, and have never received items of any worth from anyone. One former guildmate of mine gave me roses whenever he saw me, but he did that with all female avatars. I've occasionally received " grabs Fanguad's butt" type emotes, usually followed up by doing it to all other female avatars.
I also agree with the roleplaying aspect. It's fun to try something different. I mainly play female character because they're pretty, but it does add an additional "what would this character do" element, instead of just "what would I do?". For example, there's a powerful end-game hat that looks really phallic. I've sworn up and down that I will not ever wear this hat because of its appearance. (we'll see how long my resolve holds out once I'm actually able to equip it)
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In Oblivion I played male characters initially, but my latest character is a female orc. The choice was based exclusively on starting stats (again, I was looking for a magic using character, and the female orc is a surprisingly well balanced choice for that). Of course, in Oblivion, once you start building levels, the distinctions between your early choices go away pretty quickly, aside from the racial bonuses, which I think most people never use...
I've never played a modern MMO.
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The only problem are the morons that try flirting with you. Best way to avoid the stupid flirting is to say or do things rather early in a group that indicate your true gender. Almost always works for me.
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http://blogs.parc.com/playon/archives/data/wow_data/gender/index.html
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Paraphrasing: "Because 3rd person chase camera is so popular, you going to end up staring at the character's backside for most of the game. And if I'm going to do that, they better have a butt that I'd like to stare at."
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Forgot to note in my previous post that I've never actually noticed any of the random-gift-giving when I've played a female, except occasionally in CoH/V (drive-by Insp-giving). But then again, that could be because in the beta I made my male-ness semi-public, maybe my SG from then decided to make sure others didn't fall into the "IT'S A TRAP!" Could be that the random drive-bys are newbies who don't know. Or maybe I'm just overthinking, and some of the CoH/V gamers are extremely mysogynistic (think a 'woman' can't get by without help), and others are more equality-driven.
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I think it started with the female character in Golden Axe II and Chun-Li in SFII. Sure, they're nice to look at, but typically, female characters were faster than the male characters. Yes, their attacks were usually weaker, but I always liked the speed advantage. So, as a result, I've just started enjoying playing as female avatars and that continues to this day, even when there is no real "advantage" either way.
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Why? I usually go with whichever character I think has a cooler design. Between Scout (the default male character) and Hana (the default female character), I liked Hana more.
For the Pokémon games, my preferred character for Ruby/Sapphire/Emerald was May (the girl) as I liked her design over Brendan (the boy).
But for FireRed and LeafGreen, I chose the male since I liked his design more.
I guess it also depends on how they play, as well. With SoulCalibur II, my favorites are Link, Knightmare, Yoshimitsu, Talim, and Cassandra. Three males, two females (Though, how much I like them is not necessarily in that order).
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Nobody has ever flirted with me or anything like that.
Ever.
And they would be goatse'd if they tried.
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