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I don't Twitter. But if someone is informing a circle of friends of a life changing event, I see it as a good way to avoid the whispers and stares and move on. When I had a miscarriage everyone heard through the grapevine. This will certainly spare her unwanted condolences (since she was clearly releaved) and questions. As much as I wanted to be left alone - everyone felt the need to say something. With a text - she can just delete it and not reply.
I'd personally prefer privacy, but that was impossible.

By the time I locate one of these gadgets for my son - this will be better sorted out. If it is as simple and innocent as they say then there is always plexi glass. Sounds like fun - hope it's not too much fun and he still studies.